Parenting While Homeless

It's the toughest job there is, being a parent. And it's a role that becomes exponentially more challenging when the safety of four walls and a roof are gone. How do homeless parents help their family survive? How do they provide for their children amid such uncertainty?

Sadly, these are questions that far too many families are having to answer the hard way... by experiencing it.

The team over at the Homelessness Resource Center shared with me a the powerful essay of a woman named Gladys Fonfield-Ayinla who shares her experience as a single homeless mother. She talks about her downward spiral into homelessness, her regrets, the painful memories of entering shelter.

But Fonfield-Ayinla's essay is not just a memoir. She raises important concerns she had while parenting in a shelter environment; issues that should be required reading for every family shelter service provider. Her key concerns involved childcare choice, parenting in a house with other families (with their own beliefs, disciplinary styles, etc.), and the heavy-handed disciplinary approach that - while necessary in some cases - prevents individuals from speaking out for fear of losing their only shelter.

Whether you're a parent or not, this story will open your eyes. You will feel her pain. But more importantly, you will get a sense of the intrinsic challenges in meeting the needs of homeless families through a traditional shelter system.